Seeing unhealthy patterns in your family and deciding that those pattens end with you and will not be passed down to future generations is an extremely brave and powerful decision.
Forgive yourself for repeating what was taught to you as a child, then put the conscious effort into deprogram these patterns.
the fact that jupiter and saturn haven’t been physically and observably this close since 1226 is so poetic bc you’re telling me i’m going to look up at and admire the same astronomical anomaly in the sky that someone hundreds and hundreds of years ago, with less knowledge of the stars and the planets than we have now, also looked up at and admired nonetheless. the past is long gone but the awareness of being connected to someone somewhere long ago thru the night sky is overwhelming me
When my mind wanders into a memory or a joke or a scenario that makes me laugh and laugh and laugh to myself and then I think abt how fortunate we are that joy and amusement are always right there inside of us
Children of rich parents who get successful on their own without their parents help is a great thing. However, the fact that they know that they they have a strong backup if they fail is a strong factor in their success. They can afford to fail as compared to children from middle or lower class
you’re allowed to get up one day and just decide to change who you are. dress differently, speak up more, laugh out loud even though you’ve never liked your laugh, say what you want to, say hey to people you wouldn’t normally, get that confidence going. we don’t have to stay the way people see us out of the fear that they won’t like the us we want to be.
Judgmental / criticizing people are harder on themselves.
Those who are negative sabotage themselves.
People who gossip or spread rumors feel better by lying about others.
Individuals who criticize your appearance hate the way they look.
Those who act like the victim feel unloved and yearn for attention.
People who are controlling feel like their life is out of control.
Liars lie to themselves the most.
Those who feel inferior feel better by putting others down.
Individuals who are constantly aggressive with others carry anger inside.
Frustrated people who take it out on others never feel satisfied.
People who are fearful will try to convince you to stray away from achieving anything.
This is how pain is passed from person to person and generation after generation. We should all use compassion and love as a weapon. Let’s change “hurt people, hurt people” to “hurt people don’t have to hurt people”. Abusing others is a choice. Heal and learn from your pain. Let’s lift each other and grow together.
In the dog world, humans are elves that routinely live to be 500+ years old.
“They live so long…but the good ones still bond with us for our entire lives.”
“These immortals are so kind we must be good friends to them”
My heart wtf
Not gonna lie, this fucked me up a bit.
POV Fantasy slice of life book when?
“Now I am old. The fur around my muzzle is grey and my joints ache when we walk together. Yet she remains unchanged, her hair still glossy, her skin still fresh, her step still sprightly. Time doesn’t touch her and yet I love her still.”
“For generations, he has guarded over my family. Since the days of my great-great-great-great-great-grandfather he has kept us safe. For so long we thought him immortal. But now I see differently, for just as my fur grows gray and my joints grow stiff, so too do his. He did not take in my children, but gave them away to his. I will be the last that he cares for. My only hope is that I am able to last until his final moments. The death of one of his kind is so rare. The ending of a life so long is such a tragedy. He has seen so much, he knows so much. I know he takes comfort in my presence. I only wish that I will be able to give him this comfort until the end.”
SHOOK
So, this post has fucked me up so much for yeeeears that I started telling people in real life so their lives can be ruined too!
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This remember me of the post about how humans seem like fae to animals. Wish I could find it!
